If a loved one is showing signs and symptoms of mental illness, you should be open and honest about your concerns. You can offer encouragement and support. You can also help to find a mental health professional for them.
If they need urgent help call 999 or visit West Yorkshire Suicide Prevention.
You may be having difficult thoughts like:
- You don't really see yourself as a carer
- You don't think you help much
- You don't understand what they are going through
You may also have concerns such as:
- Being worried you're doing the wrong thing
- Being worried about their safety
- Being worried about what other people think
You might experience challenges like:
- Your relationship is changing
- They won't get help
- They push you away or say upsetting things
- It's hard to get them the help they need
If you haven't experienced a mental health problem, it can be difficult to understand what it's like. You can ask them to try and explain, but remember it isn't always easy to do so. You could both look at some mental health information, blogs and short videos. These resources might help them find something that puts it into the right words.
If your loved one has self-harmed, or is considering doing so, take them to hospital or call for emergency help.
You can find some useful information and resources through the websites listed below:
- Parents Mental Health Support | Advice for Your Child | YoungMinds
- Get urgent help for mental health - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
- Mental health services - NHS (www.nhs.uk)
- Support services for mental health - Mind
- Online mental health support | Mental Health Foundation
- Adult mental health support - Wakefield Council
- Mental health and wellbeing - Wakefield Council
- Self-Care - Things you can do to proactively look after your mental health.
- Mental Health Support Help Lines – Offering a safe place to talk and have someone listen to whatever is worrying you.
- Talking Therapies – One to one or group therapies.
- GP Practice – Your GP can refer you to secondary mental health services or prescribe medication.
- Community Mental Health Support – Support services, offering a variety of emotional and practical support for adults.